THE BLOG

You owe it to YOURSELF to CHOOSE WELL!

advice be smart black love black men black women choose well choose wisely dating divorce marriage relationships Apr 03, 2024

Happy Wednesday! 😍😍😍

Well, another bLaCK lOVe marriage goes BUST in Hollywood, and this time it's the five-year union of Chance The Rapper and his wife, Kirsten Corley.

Now, I will be the first to admit that I don't follow this dude, his wife, or their life... 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

But I definitely remember hearing about his little "incident" last year in the Caribbean during Carnival!

Remember that?

Oh yeah! He was down there bumping and grinding on VARIOUS WOMEN... 💅💅💅

Having a so-called "great time enjoying tHE cULtuRe"...

As though he were a SINGLE MAN without a WHOLE WIFE AND CHILDREN AT HOME!

There were so many people (both black males AND Black women!) who really had the AUDACITY to NEGATE his EGREGIOUS, INEXCUSABLE, & UNFORGIVABLE BEHAVIOR! 🧐🧐🧐

And my rebuttal is ALWAYS THIS:

📢📢📢Had the same line of events been carried out BY HIS WIFE WITH SOME RANDOM BLACK MALES IN JAMAICA DURING CARNIVAL OR ANY WHERE, AT ANY TIME ON PLANET EARTH...📢📢📢

Would Chance The Rapper be expected to EXCUSE HIS WIFE?

Would Black folks EXCUSE HIS WIFE?

Would ANYONE, ANYWHERE EXCUSE HIS WIFE?

Do you remember how both black males and Black women were OUTRAGED, siding with Keke Palmer's deadbeat BabyDaddy regarding her chosen attire for Usher Raymond's Vegas concert? 🧐🧐🧐

Remember how they said she was BEING DISRESPECTFUL?

That dude wasn't even HER HUSBAND, yet Chance's wife shouldn't have been bothered by him grinding and whining because "iT'S tHE cULtUrE!!!" 🙄🙄🙄

C'mon, y'all! How delusional do you have to be? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Anyway, Black Women, please let this serve as yet another reminder:

Choose Well.

Choose Wisely.

Be Smart!

You don't have to settle for foolishness from ANYONE!

And know that you do indeed teach people how to treat you... 💅💅💅

If he does it ONCE and you ACCEPT IT BY ACCEPTING HIM, he will absolutely 1000% do it AGAIN... REPEATEDLY.

And then he'll tell you that YOU LIKE IT BECAUSE YOU'RE STILL THERE WITH HIM! 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

So, yes, once again, it bears repeating...

CHOOSE WELL. CHOOSE WISELY. BE SMART!

You owe it to YOURSELF! 💅💅💅

Check out the headlines, posts, comments, and pics below! Your thoughts?

 

SUBSCRIBE FOR BLOG NOTIFICATIONS

Be notified of the latest blog post! Stay in the know!

We hate SPAM. We will never sell your information, for any reason.